Since you made me so fucked up about how "nice" is college and how it'll give you freedom. Alright, I'm writing this specially FOR you to really tell you what the fuck is college about. Yeah, you get more flexible timetable, you get to go out more, you get to wear what shit you like, or maybe don't wear any shit at all as you see fit. You get to know new friends, you get to go learn more interesting stuff than in school. Maybe get to find a bf/gf, whatever. The truth is, with all these freedom, it makes your own studies and career more hard to achieve. Why? Simple. Of all youngsters wouldn't really care for is, self-control. This small term is enough to get you to heaven, or drop you down straight to hell. Freedom = do whatever you like? Correct? NO. Freedom = Make you more consious about yourself, supposedly. No one controls you 100%, but in the end if you do everything as you see fit, like FUN FUN FUN all the time, that means you're a goner for sure. I've seen it almost everytime. Ok, let's say you don't have fun all the time. You stick with class, you stick with studies and all. Does that mean people won't backstab you for nothing? Nope. It gets even worse here since it's the next step for you in life after school, and also the time where you are actually lacking 1 step more to work life. Does work life seem fun? No right? College looks fun. Society looks nice on the surface. But is social life nice? Yeah, of course. When you're the serial backstabber + gossiper, sure thang! It'll be fun disposing who you see fit in the whole society for your own benifit. But as the victim, do you get to have fun? Nope. Why? Cause your reputation and efforts are done for if you have like, shit mental strength.
Now you get it why the hell it ain't any better than school? Why the hell I said "school got school good, college got college good?"
Coz I don't wanna break your dumb hope and say like college is even better at making your whole life in misery. It did to mine. Do you think I like to make you go through the same thing? That's why I recommended you to come in the first place. But you just had to talk about your mom picking Sunway. No comment. Just trying to tell you that you can't follow what she says forever till the day she dies. I thought you hate her? Or is it just purely because you're scared of what she'll say to the whole family? I don't know. I never liked any side of my family anyways.
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errr.. i usd to think that college life is muchmore better than secondary or even primary, cause like what u said, we can wear whatever shit or do whatever we want.
Teacher don't even care whether u submit assignment or attend classes.
It seems like there is more freedom in college.
But in fact, I felt more stressful compare with the time when we were preparing for SPM (which i think is the toughest time i've been thru in secondary).
I totally agree what u said.
*raise both hands and legs to agree*
U do have more time compare with secondary but those spare time are mostly used to rush assignemnt.
During secondary, u wont rush assignment whole day without sleeping >"<
but in college, u need to submit ur assignment within the deadline.
Nobody will care whether there is enought time for u to sleep or whether u can handle all the assignment by yourself.
* ps for kp-ing... kaka XD
i now u write this to ur mei..
Just trying to give a different point of view
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